I have had people like this, real and viuratl. People that don’t lift me but rather make me feel like I am trying to win their affection. I have to be very diligent with boundaries because I tend to be a weird paradox of being vulnerable online but not as much in the real world. I am glad you are doing what you need to do for you and you can only control what you can to do what’s best for you. I am relieved for you that you got rid of this emotional vampire:)
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I have had people like this, real and viuratl. People that don’t lift me but rather make me feel like I am trying to win their affection. I have to be very diligent with boundaries because I tend to be a weird paradox of being vulnerable online but not as much in the real world. I am glad you are doing what you need to do for you and you can only control what you can to do what’s best for you. I am relieved for you that you got rid of this emotional vampire:)
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